The Art of Being ALONE by Renuka Gavrani

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The-Art-of-Being-ALONE-by-Renuka-Gavrani:Taylor-Swift-said-once,-“The-scary-news-is,-you-are-on-your-own-now.-But-the-cool-news-is,-you-are-on-your-own-now”The-fear-of-loneliness-was-injected-into-our-minds-since-we-were-kids.-We-have-learned-that-the-kid-who-eats,-sits,-and-has-no-friends-is-pathetic.-In-every-book-or-movie,-the-kid-who-eats-alone-and-has-no-friends-is-always-featured-as-a-weak-character-who-needs-to-be-saved.-Pick-any-book-or-movie,-and-you-will-observe-a-common-pattern-around-loneliness.-These-people-were-shown-as-easy-targets-or-an-object-of-your-sympathy.No-one-wants-to-be-seen-as-a-‘weirdo’-hence,-our-dread-of-being-alone.-We-don’t-want-people-to-think-of-us-as-someone-who-needs-to-be-saved-or-mocked.-Someone-who-is-unwanted-or-doesn’t-fit-in-with-the-cool-kids.-We-don’t-want-people-to-think-that-no-one-chose-us.-So-what-do-we-do? We-start-becoming-like-an-ideal-version-of-whom-everyone-loves.-And-in-the-race-of-achieving-people’s-acceptance-and-love,-you-end-up-losing-yourself. The-Art-of-Being-Alone-is-not-just-another-book.-It’s-a-story-of-my-life.-I-have-been-alone-for-the-majority-of-my-life.-And-I-still-am.-The-only-difference-is,-earlier-I-used-to-wish-for-the-kind-of-best-friend-who-will-save-me-and-now-I-enjoy-every-day-with-myself,-doing-things-that-I-always-wanted-to-and-using-my-‘alone-time’-to-GROW-MYSELF-and-build-my-dream-life.-And-through-my-book,-I-want-to-take-you-on-the-journey-of-being-cool-with-being-alone.-I-have-spent-most-of-my-life-wishing-for-people-to-stay-or-have-fun-with-me-while-ignoring-my-soul-waiting-for-me-to-pay-attention-to-myself.-I-know it’s-tough-to-be-lonely. But-I-promise, it’s-fun-to-be-alone. And-it’s-even-more-amazing-when-you-use-your-alone-time-to-build-your-dream-life,-achieve-your-goals,-and-fall-in-love-with-yourself.We-fear-loneliness-because-we-have-been-manipulated-into-believing-that-loneliness-is-a-curse.-And-in-the-hope-of-finding-people,-we-often-end-up-losing-ourselves-and-doing-things-that-we-hated-in-the-first-place.-Why? Why-do-you-hate-the-idea-of-being-with-yourself-so-much-that-you-are-ready-to-settle-for-the-bare-minimum? But-enough-is-enough.-I-have-divided-this-book-into-two-sections.-The-first-section-is-about-transforming-loneliness-into-solitude.-And-the-second-section-is-about-how-you-can-use-your-solitude-to-turn-into-your-growth-period.-If-you-are-ready-to-transform-your-perception-around-loneliness-and-if-you-are-all-set-to-achieve-your-goals-using-your-‘alone-time’-then-welcome-to ‘The-Art-of-Being-Alone’‘The-Art-of-Being-Alone’-is-for-every-person-who-wants-to-learn-how-to-use-your-alone-time-in-a-way-that-you-fall-in-love-with-your-current-life-while-also-feeling-excited-to-work-toward-your-dream-life.-If-you-are-still-victimizing-your-character-because-you-were-left-behind,-it’s-time-to-turn-the-table-around-and-build-the-life-you-always-wished-for.